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The landing pages for the sections below include links to content on this site (as well as some external links.)


Fundamentals for BDSM and Leather: Introductory articles, munches, parties, bashes & conferences, terms & concepts, D/a roles, s&m tips and techniques, finding and making S&M toys,

Landing page: General


Munches and groups organized by location including Texas, the Ohio River Valley, and elsewhere.

Landing page: Locales

Health & Safety

Medical advice, First Aid instructions, and an important essay by Jay Wiseman on Breath Control.

Landing page: Health & Safety:


Domestic abuse should not be confused with consensual BDSM. I abhor domestic violence, abuse, and rape. This seection includes several links, a list of mostly local resources, and a statement from the Lesbian Sex Mafia (LSM).

I had trouble naming this section of my web site. Originally I wanted to name it "BDSM vs. Abuse." to make the point that consensual BDSM is distinct from domestic violence. But that would have implied that the two were mutually exclusive. As much as our community largely abhors domestic violence, abuse, and rape, the unpleasant truth is abuse has been and still is an issue in our community. That must be acknowleged and addressed. So I renamed it "Abuse or BDSM."

Most recently I changed the name to simply "Abuse." Since the title of the web site includes the term "BDSM," including it in the name of the section is redundant.

Landing page: Abuse


If you are new to this lifestyle, for your safety and well being, please take the time to read the first four articles in this section before you start dating or playing with strangers.

Once you meet someone you like and trust, you should negotiate your play session. This section includes a plain HTML negotiation form, an online interactive negotiation form, and an online interactive checklist as well as advice and resources for meeting others.

Landing page: Relationships


Leather and BDSM history, mythology, and traditions

Landing page: History

Featured: The Leather History Timeline by Tony DeBlase and others


Protocol, manners, and etiquette for inside the scene and out. Also other alternative communities and communities that can fit under the BDSM umbrella.

Landing page: Protocol

Featured: Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol by Ambrosio


BDSM and the Law. I am not a lawyer and this section is not offered as legal advice or an attempt to interprete the law. These links are a starting point -- not the final word on legal issues. For reliable legal advice, you must talk to a real lawyer.

Landing Page: Law


Advice and information on starting and running a BDSM group, throwing parties, acting as a Dungeon Monitor, and being a community activist.

Landing Page: Civics

About Me

My vanity pages, shameless self-promotion, and online cruising. Includes my personal ad and contact page.

Landing Page: About Me

Miscellaneous Pages

Anything that doesn't fit into the other categories. That includes personal web sites, humor, and art & literature (such as the works of Hanns Heinz Ewers and poetry.)

Landing Page: Miscellaneous Pages

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The site map links all to the individual pages on this site organized into sections. It does not include external links.